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I found this post on Fetlife by chance. At this time I’m deeply thinking about consent and negotiation and this article touched me.<\/p>\nI found this post on Fetlife by chance. At this time I’m deeply thinking about consent and negotiation and this article touched me.<\/p>\n
The author wrote these guidelines hoping to follow them in more agitated and stressful conjunctions like when you – or a person close to you – are accused in a consent incident.<\/p>\n
Ozma_of_Oz sets some important concepts: for example the right to speak for the accuser and the right of defense for the accused.<\/p>\n
In general I agree with the advice of this post, but the author doesn’t distinguish between consent “violation” and “incident” and I think in this last case the accused’s responsibilities aren’t always so clear.<\/p>\n
Anyway reading this post helped me in setting some important points and I hope this will help me in follow them, even if I’m a “fallible person” like everyone so I’ll do my best while “my best might not be very good”.<\/p>\n
So, more than an ineluctable resolution, more than an unbreakable promise, this post provides some food for thoughts to be more prepared when we’ll have something to do with a consent incident, regardless of our position.<\/p>\n
You can find the original post here: https:\/\/fetlife.com\/users\/184137\/posts\/3971074. My translation in Italian is here: https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/laccusat-quando-sei-tu-a-essere-accusat-in-un-incidente-di-consenso\/<\/a>
\nThis writing is by Ozma_of_Oz<\/a>, producer of Ropecraft<\/a> and\u00a0Tethered Together<\/a>\u00a0events.<\/p>\n
\n(with the author’s permission)<\/p>\n