{"id":2353,"date":"2020-08-07T11:05:08","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T09:05:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/?p=2353"},"modified":"2025-09-03T22:18:31","modified_gmt":"2025-09-03T20:18:31","slug":"consent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent\/","title":{"rendered":"BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\">[vc_row full_width=&#8221;stretch_row_content_no_spaces&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>by La quarta corda<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Translation by Ayzad (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ayzad.com\/\">www.ayzad.com<\/a>)<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=&#8221;2371&#8243; img_size=&#8221;medium&#8221; alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1594715935987{background-color: #f7f7f7 !important;}&#8221;][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>TABLE OF CONTENTS<\/strong><\/h5>\n<div class=\"su-table su-table-alternate su-table-fixed\">\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 50%\">\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-01-introduction\/\">Introduction<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-02-a-few-definitions\/\">A few definitions<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-03-the-negotiation-vocabulary\/\">The negotiation vocabulary<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-04-trust\/\">Trust<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-05-experience\/\">Experience<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-06-when-and-how-much-to-negotiate\/\">When and how much to negotiate<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-07-expressing-our-motivation-and-expectations\/\">Expressing our motivation and expectations<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-08-presenting-our-desires\/\">Presenting our desires<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-09-presenting-our-limits\/\">Presenting our limits<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-10-safeword\/\">Safeword<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/td>\n<td style=\"width: 50%\">\n<ol start=\"11\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-11-informing-about-any-physical-problems\/\">Informing about any physical problems<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-12-informing-about-possible-psychophysical-emotional-and-psychological-problems\/\">Informing about possible psychophysical, emotional and psychological problems<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-13-aftercare\/\">Aftercare<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-14-negotiating-before-the-session\/\">Negotiating before the session<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-15-negotiating-during-the-session\/\">Negotiating during the session<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-16-feedbacks\/\">Feedbacks<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-17-when-the-session-is-over\/\">When the session is over<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-18-consent\/\">Consent<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-19-when-consent-breaks\/\">When consent breaks<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-20-conclusions\/\">Conclusions<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_basic_grid post_type=&#8221;post&#8221; 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