{"id":2451,"date":"2020-08-15T15:10:16","date_gmt":"2020-08-15T13:10:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/?p=2451"},"modified":"2024-04-02T23:24:17","modified_gmt":"2024-04-02T21:24:17","slug":"consent-17-when-the-session-is-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.laquartacorda.it\/en\/consent-17-when-the-session-is-over\/","title":{"rendered":"When the session is over"},"content":{"rendered":"
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BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines<\/strong><\/h2>\n

by La quarta corda<\/strong><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]\n

17 – When the session is over<\/strong><\/h4>\n[\/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=”2371″ img_size=”medium” alignment=”center”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row full_width=”stretch_row” css=”.vc_custom_1594715935987{background-color: #f7f7f7 !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n
TABLE OF CONTENTS<\/strong><\/h5>\n
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  1. Introduction<\/a><\/li>\n
  2. A few definitions<\/a><\/li>\n
  3. The negotiation vocabulary<\/a><\/li>\n
  4. Trust<\/a><\/li>\n
  5. Experience<\/a><\/li>\n
  6. When and how much to negotiate<\/a><\/li>\n
  7. Expressing our motivation and expectations<\/a><\/li>\n
  8. Presenting our desires<\/a><\/li>\n
  9. Presenting our limits<\/a><\/li>\n
  10. Safeword<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/td>\n
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  1. Informing about any physical problems<\/a><\/li>\n
  2. Informing about possible psychophysical, emotional and psychological problems<\/a><\/li>\n
  3. Aftercare<\/a><\/li>\n
  4. Negotiating before the session<\/a><\/li>\n
  5. Negotiating during the session<\/a><\/li>\n
  6. Feedbacks<\/a><\/li>\n
  7. When the session is over<\/a><\/li>\n
  8. Consent<\/a><\/li>\n
  9. When consent breaks<\/a><\/li>\n
  10. Conclusions<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n

    \"\"WHEN THE SESSION IS OVER<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Once the session (including any aftercare) is over, it may be welcome to ask our partner whether everything went well and how they feel.<\/p>\n

    This is something it\u2019s usually best to postpone until the emotions of the game have cleared up – perhaps even the following day, without being pushy – so that we have time to \u201creturn to reality\u201d and calmly rethink the experience we\u2019ve had together.<\/p>\n

    It is a thoughtful gesture<\/strong>, generally appreciated, which shows our closeness and interest towards our partner.<\/p>\n

    This can also prove useful to improve ourselves and, especially if we\u2019re going to play with that person again, to know whether there is something that went well but could have been better, or if we\u2019ve noticed that something else didn\u2019t particularly thrill us.<\/p>\n[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row full_width=”stretch_row” css=”.vc_custom_1594715935987{background-color: #f7f7f7 !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]\n\n\n\n\n
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    16 – Feedbacks
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    18 – Consent
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