Three minute Friday 20 – Job done! What’s next?
This is the last episode of Three minute Friday! In these twenty videos I have…
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Three minute Friday 19 – Manage the negotiation in ten steps
This is the second to last Three minute Friday and, after a lot of “theoretical”…
Read MoreThree minute Friday 18 – When consent breacks
In BDSM there is a distinction between consent “violation” and “accident”. In the instance of…
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Three minute Friday 17 – Which is the best consent model?
In this video we will take a look at the main consent models and the…
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Three minute Friday 16 – Everything you know about feedbacks is wrong
We often talk about the importance of giving feedback, but it is not always clear…
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Three minute Friday 15 – All I got about trust
Today we’ll talk about trust and we’ll try to think about what we can do…
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Three minute Friday 14 – All the advantages of assertive communication
Assertiveness is a type of communication based on sincerity, careful to avoid misunderstandings and not…
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Three minute Friday 13 – The manipulative communication
We have already touched on the subject of manipulative communication when we talked about passive-aggressive…
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Three minute Friday 12 – A triangle? I wasn’t expecting that!
In this short video we will talk about “triangular” communication which takes place when we…
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Three minute Friday 11 – The fearsome passive-aggressive communication
When “the worst” of the two communication styles we have seen in the previous videos…
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Three minute Friday 10 – All about aggressive communication
Even if a battle can be won with force, in the long run, an aggressive…
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Three minute Friday 09 – Passive communication isn’t a good choice
I am sure that many people (myself included) will recognize themselves in the examples contained…
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Three minute Friday 08 – How to communicate in an effective and respectful way – An introduction
This is the introductory video to a series of ‘Three Minute Friday’ videos dedicated to…
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Three minute Friday 07 – All the risks of expectations
We all have expectations that we project onto things all the time, we expect things:…
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Three minute Friday 06 – Limits, agreements and rules
How can I say I trust someone? In this episode we’ll talk about limits, agreements,…
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Three minute Friday 05 – The great importance of the “why” (SUB ENG)
Today I’d like to go in search of the “why”, the aspect that makes us…
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Three minute Friday 04 – Do you prefer to “push” or “pull”? (SUB ENG)
Do you prefer to “push” or “pull”? This is not only a funny pun but also…
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Three minute Friday 03 – How can consent be even “more than” enthusiastic?
Am I against “yes means yes” and “no means no”? Perhaps am I not enthusiastic about…
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Three minute Friday 02 – Give and recieve in BDSM
Negotiation can’t be one-directional, for example a top asking to a bottom if they can…
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Three minute Friday 01 – My approach to consent and negotiation
I hope you’ll like these weekly shorter videos! I called this series “Three minutes Friday”…
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Three minute Friday 00 – BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines
Today is 1st September and I’d like to take stock of my lockdown and talk…
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