TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 1 - Introduction TABLE OF CONTENTS...
The negotiation vocabulary
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 3 - The negotiation vocabulary TABLE OF...
A few definitions
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 2 - A few definitions TABLE OF...
Trust
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 4 - Trust TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction...
Experience
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 5 - Experience TABLE OF CONTENTS...
When and how much to negotiate
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 6 - When and how much to...
Expressing our motivation and expectations
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 7 - Expressing our motivation and expectations...
Presenting our desires
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 8 - Presenting our desires TABLE OF...
Presenting our limits
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 9 - Presenting our limits TABLE OF...
Safeword
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 10 - Safeword TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction...
Informing about any physical problems
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 11 - Informing about any physical problems...
Informing about possible psychophysical, emotional and psychological problems
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 12 - Informing about possible psychophysical, emotional...
Aftercare
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 13 - Aftercare TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction...
Negotiating before the session
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 14 - Negotiating before the session TABLE...
Negotiating during the session
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 15 - Negotiating during the session TABLE...
Feedbacks
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 16 - Feedbacks TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction...
When the session is over
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 17 - When the session is...
Consent
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 18 - Consent TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction...
When consent breaks
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 19 - When consent breaks TABLE OF...
Conclusions
BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines by La quarta corda 20 - Conclusions TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction...
When something goes wrong – The survey
When something goes wrong The survey A few months ago I made a survey presenting...
Three minute Friday 20 – Job done! What’s next?
This is the last episode of Three minute Friday! In these twenty videos I have…
Three minute Friday 19 – Manage the negotiation in ten steps
This is the second to last Three minute Friday and, after a lot of “theoretical”…
Three minute Friday 18 – When consent breacks
In BDSM there is a distinction between consent “violation” and “accident”. In the instance of…
Three minute Friday 17 – Which is the best consent model?
In this video we will take a look at the main consent models and the…
Three minute Friday 16 – Everything you know about feedbacks is wrong
We often talk about the importance of giving feedback, but it is not always clear…
Three minute Friday 15 – All I got about trust
Today we’ll talk about trust and we’ll try to think about what we can do…
Three minute Friday 14 – All the advantages of assertive communication
Assertiveness is a type of communication based on sincerity, careful to avoid misunderstandings and not…
Three minute Friday 13 – The manipulative communication
We have already touched on the subject of manipulative communication when we talked about passive-aggressive…
Three minute Friday 12 – A triangle? I wasn’t expecting that!
In this short video we will talk about “triangular” communication which takes place when we…
Three minute Friday 11 – The fearsome passive-aggressive communication
When “the worst” of the two communication styles we have seen in the previous videos…
Three minute Friday 10 – All about aggressive communication
Even if a battle can be won with force, in the long run, an aggressive…
Three minute Friday 09 – Passive communication isn’t a good choice
I am sure that many people (myself included) will recognize themselves in the examples contained…
Three minute Friday 08 – How to communicate in an effective and respectful way – An introduction
This is the introductory video to a series of ‘Three Minute Friday’ videos dedicated to…
Three minute Friday 07 – All the risks of expectations
We all have expectations that we project onto things all the time, we expect things:…
Three minute Friday 06 – Limits, agreements and rules
How can I say I trust someone? In this episode we’ll talk about limits, agreements,…
Three minute Friday 05 – The great importance of the “why” (SUB ENG)
Today I’d like to go in search of the “why”, the aspect that makes us…
Three minute Friday 04 – Do you prefer to “push” or “pull”? (SUB ENG)
Do you prefer to “push” or “pull”? This is not only a funny pun but also…
Three minute Friday 03 – How can consent be even “more than” enthusiastic?
Am I against “yes means yes” and “no means no”? Perhaps am I not enthusiastic about…
Three minute Friday 02 – Give and recieve in BDSM
Negotiation can’t be one-directional, for example a top asking to a bottom if they can…
Three minute Friday 01 – My approach to consent and negotiation
I hope you’ll like these weekly shorter videos! I called this series “Three minutes Friday”…
Three minute Friday 00 – BDSM consent and negotiation guidelines
Today is 1st September and I’d like to take stock of my lockdown and talk…