WHEN THE SESSION IS OVER

Once the session (including any aftercare) is over, it may be welcome to ask our partner whether everything went well and how they feel.

This is something it’s usually best to postpone until the emotions of the game have cleared up – perhaps even the following day, without being pushy – so that we have time to “return to reality” and calmly rethink the experience we’ve had together.

It is a thoughtful gesture, generally appreciated, which shows our closeness and interest towards our partner.

This can also prove useful to improve ourselves and, especially if we’re going to play with that person again, to know whether there is something that went well but could have been better, or if we’ve noticed that something else didn’t particularly thrill us.