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15th September 2021 Vlogs and posts

Rigger’s index finger: a “professional illness” for bondage and shibari tops

Hands are prone to different pathologies which can also occur as a result of long…

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15th September 2021 Vlogs and posts

Why ropes smell? Let’s discover the Jute Batching Oil

Very quick video to answer to whoever tells me that on the ropes they use…

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15th September 2021 Vlogs and posts

How to tell the partner we would like to play with bondage or any other kinky game

You have no idea how many times I have heard myself say “I’d like to…

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15th September 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Bondage, shibari and kinbaku: let’s get to know them

Do these three words mean the same thing? In this video we will discover the…

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22nd July 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

How to create your first set of ropes

Sometimes, couples come to my basic courses having already experimented with bondage in their intimacy,…

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22nd July 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Learn more

Whether you have tried some tutorials on your own or attended one of my courses…

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20th July 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 20 – Job done! What’s next?

This is the last episode of Three minute Friday! In these twenty videos I have…

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16th July 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

The importance of aftercare

When we play with ropes it’s as if we momentarily lose our balance: we experience…

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13th July 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 19 – Manage the negotiation in ten steps

This is the second to last Three minute Friday and, after a lot of “theoretical”…

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6th July 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 18 – When consent breacks

In BDSM there is a distinction between consent “violation” and “accident”. In the instance of…

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5th July 2021 Vlogs and posts

How I discovered bondage

Why is bondage so attractive? Why do so many people like it? For years, I…

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5th July 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Gote or takatekote?

Gote or takatekote? Tying someone with their hands behind their back is perhaps the most... Read More
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29th June 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 17 – Which is the best consent model?

In this video we will take a look at the main consent models and the…

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8th June 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

How to use this webbook

I have often been asked to write a book on bondage, but I have always…

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28th May 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Bondage – and BDSM – easily explained

Many people think of “Fifty Shades” scenarios when they think of bondage and BDSM. Well,…

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28th May 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

All the beauty of the bondage

All the beauty of bondage Imagine having your immobilized, helpless partner in front of you... Read More
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17th May 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 15 – All I got about trust

Today we’ll talk about trust and we’ll try to think about what we can do…

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17th May 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 14 – All the advantages of assertive communication

Assertiveness is a type of communication based on sincerity, careful to avoid misunderstandings and not…

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17th May 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 13 – The manipulative communication

We have already touched on the subject of manipulative communication when we talked about passive-aggressive…

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17th May 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 12 – A triangle? I wasn’t expecting that!

In this short video we will talk about “triangular” communication which takes place when we…

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17th May 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 11 – The fearsome passive-aggressive communication

When “the worst” of the two communication styles we have seen in the previous videos…

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21st April 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

SSC and RACK: two side of the same coin

After reading again and again “I don’t like SSC. I’m a RACK player” I couldn’t…

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20th April 2021 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

History of (not only) Japanese bondage

History of (not only) Japanese bondage Seiu Ito and Sahara Kise If we try to... Read More
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When something goes wrong – The survey

When something goes wrong The survey A few months ago I made a survey presenting... Read More
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13th March 2021 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

The four C of ropes

The four "C" of ropes Shibari is based on four interrelated aspects, namely the "4Cs".... Read More
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3rd March 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 10 – All about aggressive communication

Even if a battle can be won with force, in the long run, an aggressive…

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3rd March 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 09 – Passive communication isn’t a good choice

I am sure that many people (myself included) will recognize themselves in the examples contained…

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3rd March 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 08 – How to communicate in an effective and respectful way – An introduction

This is the introductory video to a series of ‘Three Minute Friday’ videos dedicated to…

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3rd March 2021 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 07 – All the risks of expectations

We all have expectations that we project onto things all the time, we expect things:…

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27th December 2020 TMF, Vlogs and posts

Three minute Friday 06 – Limits, agreements and rules

How can I say I trust someone? In this episode we’ll talk about limits, agreements,…

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30th October 2020 Vlogs and posts

How to have a bottom always available

Sometimes people take a long time to learn how to tie because they practice just…

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30th October 2020 Vlogs and posts

Kannukis: what they are for and where to tie them

Why do we use kannukis? What are they for? And are the notorious kannukis on the…

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30th October 2020 Vlogs and posts

A few words about consent and abuse for my friends from Latin America (SUB ENG, ESP, ITA)

If there is a legacy that BDSM can leave, it’s related to skills that everyone…

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30th October 2020 Safety, Vlogs and posts

A new commitment for all of us

I have a question for you: if at an event you see a top starting…

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26th July 2020 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

NuitdeTokyo interviews Yukimura Haruki sensei

This is an interview I translated in Italian from the original in English and Japanese….

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19th June 2020 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

The Accused: in the Case of a Consent Incident

I found this post on Fetlife by chance. At this time I’m deeply thinking about…

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30th May 2020 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

The prime directive

If you ask a nerd what’s the “prime directive”, probably he will mention the first…

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29th May 2020 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

In the words of a bottom

I knew Swirl during a workshop. After a little online conversation, we met at my…

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21st May 2020 Vlogs and posts

Ipponnawa – 一本縄

Ipponnawa (一本縄) means “to tie using a single rope”. I heard this word for the…

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17th May 2020 Vlogs and posts

Interview with EDO Shibari Nantes

An year ago I was in Nantes to teach and performing. It was really a…

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17th May 2020 Vlogs and posts

Some impressions after Xplore Roma 2019

Dionysian, orgiastic, free and antidogmatic. And all of this was clear to me at the final…

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17th May 2020 Vlogs and posts

Do what you can’t

I saw this video a lot of times and I’m glad to share it with…

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17th May 2020 Vlogs and posts

Music for shibari performances

As you probably know, I’m both a rope artist and a professional musician. Probably because…

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16th April 2020 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

The wheel of consent

During the “great quarantine” of 2020 I thought a lot about consent and negotiation. In…

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18th March 2020 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Offline and online learning

“Why should I attend classes and spend money when everything is already free online?”. “I…

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18th March 2020 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

Don’t do suspensions if…

This is probably the first rant! Since suggesting to study isn’t enough, since you can…

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18th March 2020 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

Don’t be the Prince of the Realm of Almost

Often it happens to me to hear a bottom saying “I cannot stay in a…

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11th March 2020 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Japanese rope bondage glossary

In this dictionary I collected more than one hundred fifty of the most used terms…

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6th March 2020 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Ropes for bondage

Ropes for bondage In this post we’ll see the characteristics of some kinds of rope... Read More
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5th March 2020 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Muganawa

You can read this post directly on the original website here: http://www.tokyobound.com/blog/?p=317 “Muganawa” isn’t a traditional…

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4th March 2020 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Jandel’s secret ropes

Jeandel's secret ropes The translation of this post is by Ayzad, a journalist, writer, kinky... Read More
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18th February 2020 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

How to safely start rope bottoming

How to safely start rope bottoming by coldeyes Versione italiana Version française The shooting of... Read More
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17th December 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

How to find a rope partner for bondage and shibari

A research made in Italy in 2008 and another more outdated one made in the…

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28th October 2019 Vlogs and posts

Eight hours, just communication – The communication through the ropes in the words of a student

Last winter a couple from Barcelona came to Florence to have a shibari intensive weekend…

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11th October 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Five false myths on Japanese bondage

In this post I will show you five false myths about Japanese bondage that a…

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10th October 2019 Vlogs and posts

La quarta corda goes green

In this video I don’t speak about Japanese bondage, but I deal with something I…

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2nd October 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Interview to Akechi Denki by Osada Steve

You can read this post directly on the original website here: Interview to Akechi Denki…

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2nd October 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Nawa shigusa: the good manners of ropes

“Edo shigusa” in Japanese means “the good manners of the city of Edo”. They are…

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1st October 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Haiku: when semplicity becomes poetry

Haiku: when simplicity becomes poetry Did you know that the word “haiku” was born only... Read More
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27th September 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

How to make your rope wax

In this quick tutorial I’d like to share the recipe of my homemade rope wax. It’s…

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27th September 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Interview for Murmur magazine at Bound and embraced (Dublin)

Bound and embraced was an event organised by GalleryX in Dublin (Ireland). During the weekend…

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27th September 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

A glimpse into Yukimura sensei’s private life

During the last trip to Tokyo, I had the chance to meet Higure Keisuke, Yukimura…

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24th September 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Ten minutes with La quarta corda

After a workshop for Ecole des cordes in Paris, I did a little interview with…

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24th September 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Rope jam, peer rope, salon, nawakai…What are they?

Playing with ropes is really beautiful, both in an intimate situation and with other people…

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24th September 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

The chemistry of ropes

The chemistry of ropes We call “adrenaline” a strong emotion and we know that eating... Read More
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3rd September 2019 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

How to clean ropes

Ropes can get dirty in two ways: touching the floor or other surfaces and objects…

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3rd September 2019 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

Neves and bondage

This flyer was prepared by Place des Cordes, a space dedicated to bondage now closed, to…

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27th August 2019 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

Bondage and deep venous thrombosis

Bondage and deep venous thrombosis After an accident which I got to know recently, I... Read More
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7th August 2019 Nawame, Safety, Vlogs and posts

Safety guidelines for bondage

Safety guidelines for bondage by La quarta corda - Version 3.1 Translation: coldeyes DOWNLOAD SAFETY... Read More
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21st June 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

The importance of ma

I heard about “ma” (間) during a workshop with Otonawa a few years ago. Otonawa…

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27th March 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Paris and Toulon workshops with Ecole des cordes

In 2018 I did a couple of workshop with coldeyes in Paris at Place des…

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27th March 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

La quarta corda’s workshop in Montpellier with Art des cordes sud

In the first days of 2018 I went to Montpellier to hold a workshop with…

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12th March 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

From Yanaka with love

Enjoy the video of my trip to Tokyo with coldeyes! You can discover some unknown…

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12th March 2019 Nawame, Vlogs and posts

Interview with Akira Naka

During my trip to Japan I took lessons with Akira Naka sensei. He was very…

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